tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3334391160365031546.post1298209691060096927..comments2023-10-10T05:17:55.737-07:00Comments on Crushed By Ingsoc: Thoughts For The DayCrushedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02479751225625007588noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3334391160365031546.post-46553608400828120392008-11-08T09:16:00.000-08:002008-11-08T09:16:00.000-08:00Grrrr! Stop analysing everything and instead cros...Grrrr! Stop analysing everything and instead cross bridges if/when you get to them.<br><br><i>And sometimes I've had to fight that urge to put my arms round her and kiss her on the forehead.</i><br><br>Well first we need to establish if that is possible (re: an earlier post). How tall are you both?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3334391160365031546.post-56405366933964629782008-11-08T12:33:00.000-08:002008-11-08T12:33:00.000-08:00For some reason, your posts make me think of The J...For some reason, your posts make me think of The Judybats song "Pain Makes You Beautiful."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3334391160365031546.post-81271533963422200082008-11-08T13:49:00.000-08:002008-11-08T13:49:00.000-08:00Some things..1. You are assuming this is what she...Some things..<br>1. You are assuming this is what she wants? Maybe she just wants her 'brother' to be with her at the party.. and all of this romantic scenario is in your head?<br><br>2. You don't have to go on this journey with EVERY woman you meet. Just like I need to not see every man who says hello to me as a potential father of my babies. Relax your expectations, my friend.<br><br>3. Even if it does seem to go the way your scenario predicts.. remember.. she is your 'sister'.. There are plenty more chicks out there who aren't 'related' to you..<br><br>4. How does a man put extra curls in his hair?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3334391160365031546.post-59951623044595025712008-11-08T15:44:00.000-08:002008-11-08T15:44:00.000-08:00I love Kimba's comments and I second them!I know i...I love Kimba's comments and I second them!<br><br>I know it's hard though...I have a whole role play going in my head every time a man so much as looks as me..I see him pushing a pram, I see him taking my kids to school, what I'll be like with him...<br><br>and then after a few minutes of that I'm usually bored and cynical and thus cancel out any initial attractions.<br>I think it's called intellectualizing a situation before any situation has occurred.<br><br>I do think we think too much!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3334391160365031546.post-3498015358933501382008-11-09T23:33:00.000-08:002008-11-09T23:33:00.000-08:00Sparsely Kate has a point. I think many of us run ...Sparsely Kate has a point. I think many of us run scenarios in our heads like that. Like our heads have a miniature pentagon in them and a tiny joint chiefs of staff gaming every potential scenario…<br><br>Seriously though Crushed. Tread carefully. This situation has the potential to hurt those you really care for and trash your status quo permanently. <br><br>If you read things right it might be natural that you could fall into a relationship. Be pretty damned sure before you let her think you might. If you are not then be careful to make sure your actions and feelings are clear and unambiguous, not open to misinterpretation, or you might end up doing far more harm than good.<br><br>I figure she presses quite a few of your self confessed buttons that make girls attractive to you, at least in the short term.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3334391160365031546.post-28933519750730535292008-11-10T11:07:00.000-08:002008-11-10T11:07:00.000-08:00Ginro- I analyse everything :)She is slightly tall...Ginro- I analyse everything :)<br><br>She is slightly taller, but that's not hard.<br><br>Vicarious Rising- I think it true to say I do carry a lot of pain deep inside, yes.<br><br>I think I always will.<br><br>Kimba- It's not romantic, it's just these things happen.<br>Fortunately, it didn't. I got sidetracked by an asian girl called Tanya.<br>That and my excitement about Obama.<br><br>Ah, but I do have a habit of ending up in this dilemma.<br><br>It's not that I mean to lead them on, I just- do.<br><br>I did remember that, yes. It really is a taboo.<br><br>Simple.<br>After I've washed my hair, I fluff it up.<br>I then apply curl boosting gel, and wrap the foreloocks round ny finger to make thm curl tighter, then I spray them into position.<br><br>Kate- My problem is I am the eternal commitmentphobe.<br>Frankly, my standards aren't high on one level, but at others I have an impossibly high bar.<br><br>Problem is, I like women, I hate relationships. But I'll say pretty much anything too get them into bed.<br><br>But yes, I probably do think too much.<br><br>Moggs- It's wise to.<br><br>Yes, it would be ultra stupid. I can't see CS forgiving it- I wouldn't.<br>I have only once in my life committed such a faux pas- I shagged a mate's ex the night after she dumped him. I pretended I hadn't for about a year, but I don't think anyone was fooled.<br><br>I wouldn't really want a relationship with her, I don't think. Don't get me wrong, I really like her as a person, but it would just feel- wrong.<br><br>But yes, she DOES press many of those short term buttons. She's intelligent (Oxford University, actually), sweet, placid and carrying a sense of being hurt and broken that I can relate to.<br><br>Therein lies the danger.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3334391160365031546.post-79627849552609820532008-11-10T23:08:00.000-08:002008-11-10T23:08:00.000-08:00Crushed, Tie a knot in it to remind you not to ste...Crushed, Tie a knot in it to remind you not to step of a cliff... ^_^Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3334391160365031546.post-41860951033063802492008-11-11T03:18:00.000-08:002008-11-11T03:18:00.000-08:00Forgive me if I am wrong but am thinking maybe you...Forgive me if I am wrong but am thinking maybe you have yet to meet the one who is THE ONE for you. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3334391160365031546.post-79776182561663205102008-11-11T10:23:00.000-08:002008-11-11T10:23:00.000-08:00Moggs- :)I'm hopeless, I really am :)Nunyaa- I gue...Moggs- :)<br><br>I'm hopeless, I really am :)<br><br>Nunyaa- I guess we'll never really know. I think I have, but then again, I'm so often wrong about these things.<br>Funny isn't it? I rarely get electoral predictions and the like wrong, but I'm hopeless at these things.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3334391160365031546.post-16252789127895475622008-11-11T14:39:00.000-08:002008-11-11T14:39:00.000-08:00Like people said, you think too much. And you wor...Like people said, you think too much. And you worry too much. Just go with your instincts... <br><br>then fuck her anyway. <br><br>By the way. I suppose you have been too busy to notice but you are not exactly flavour of the month with a some people ...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3334391160365031546.post-81523377572020477022008-11-11T21:29:00.000-08:002008-11-11T21:29:00.000-08:00I know we all have lots of "I'll do it anyways, be...I know we all have lots of "I'll do it anyways, because that's why I do" weak spots. However, don't you dare try to pretend it is out of your hands. Because, even if it feels natural, it is a decision you made all the same.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com